That's not the way I am wired, and it never will be.
Simply causing another human being pain and suffering does not get me off. Pain is a sensation, like any other, but it is an undesirable one for most.
However, for some it is just the opposite, they crave it, and derive satisfaction and pleasure from it. Sometimes the satisfaction is immediate, and springs from the alternation between pleasure and pain, with the two eventually melding into one exquisite sensation. At other times the pleasure and tooms are only evident in retrospect, in part deriving from a sense of accomplishment for having tolerated so much.
In either case, the experience of the submissive is paramount, and part of what gratifies me is knowing that the exerience was, on balance, a positive one. Please don't misunderstand and assume that pain is always involved when I play. Part of what I love about BDSM is the seemingly endless array of options and possibilities for erotic expression.
There are times when all I want is to slowly, sweetly, and sensually explore my submissive, and I can spend hours doing nothing else. I can be just as content with a few lengths of rope and my imagination as I can be with the entire contents of my toybox at my disposal. Oh, and I love to make my submissive cum, the operative word being make. The orgasm is allowed if and when I choose, and it may be a single burst of gay live video chat, or a barrage of overstimulation to the point of tears.
While I expect obedience and submission, I do not expect either to be immediate or mindless. It's the best way to find "no strings" fun!
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